en nonadult no Come As You Are http://esn.fm/comeasyouare/ Thu, 05 Dec 2019 22:24:31 +0000 en-US Site-Server v6.0.0-0c115d6d0a68052a95f7ce81fd53b500fac1758b-1 (http://www.squarespace.com) ESN.fm 1-on-1 conversations about better sex, powered by science. no Moisés Chiullan moises@esn.fm Feminist Survival Project 2020 Moises Chiullan Thu, 05 Dec 2019 22:26:22 +0000 https://feedpress.me/link/9709/13041886/feminist-survival-project-2020 52edbc9de4b0b870f5f7ed49:54d291d4e4b0efe7320d3796:5de9839fafcca7089ca27ea4 New from Emily and Amelia Nagoski: The Feminist Survival Project 2020. A podcast for feminists who feel overwhelmed and exhausted by everything we need to get done in 2020, and still worry that we're not doing enough.

Find it wherever you listen to podcasts or at feministsurvivalproject.com

]]> Moises Chiullan Subscribe now! no 00:05:21 Feminist Survival Project 2020 Feminist Survival Project 2020 <p class="">New from Emily and Amelia Nagoski: The Feminist Survival Project 2020. A podcast for feminists who feel overwhelmed and exhausted by everything we need to get done in 2020, and still worry that we're not doing enough.<br></p><p class="">Find it wherever you listen to podcasts or at <a href="http://feministsurvivalproject.com/"><span>feministsurvivalproject.com</span></a></p> 7: Pleasure is the Measure Moises Chiullan Sat, 10 Oct 2015 02:00:00 +0000 https://feedpress.me/link/9709/5547122/7 52edbc9de4b0b870f5f7ed49:54d291d4e4b0efe7320d3796:56186c43e4b02c7f02681606

from left: Emily Nagoski, Jess Fink, Spike Trotman, Kate Leth, Danielle Corsetto
photo credit: the magnificent and inimitable The Doubleclicks on Twitter

Recorded live at TopatoCon 2015, Emily and an all-star panel of guests discuss a wide variety of topics: finding pleasure rather than accepting what you're stuck with, body image, vulva puppetry, feeling trapped by lack of education, and the miraculous powers of a legendary...Magic Wand.

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]]> Emily Nagoski Recorded live at TopatoCon 2015, Emily and an all-star panel of guests discuss a wide variety of topics: finding pleasure rather than accepting what you're stuck with, body image, vulva puppetry, feeling trapped by lack of education, and the miraculous powers of a legendary...Magic Wand. Recorded live at TopatoCon 2015, Emily and an all-star panel of guests discuss a wide variety of topics: finding pleasure rather than accepting what you're stuck with, body image, vulva puppetry, feeling trapped by lack of education, and the miraculous powers of a legendary...Magic Wand. no 1:02:13 6: These Metaphors and Me Moises Chiullan Mon, 27 Apr 2015 20:58:00 +0000 https://feedpress.me/link/9709/5547123/6 52edbc9de4b0b870f5f7ed49:54d291d4e4b0efe7320d3796:553e9af2e4b0b90b777c2306

Her podcasting schedule completely wrecked by Book Tour (which is going great, by the way!), Emily "phones in" a micro-episode where she answers listener mail.

How do we deal with the way our partner relationships change over time? "Very carefully" is the short answer.

Audio Quality Note: Due to Road Warrior-level, apocalyptic recording conditions while traveling, this episode does not sound lovely and buttery as we would hope or you would expect.

]]> Emily Nagoski Her podcasting schedule completely wrecked by Book Tour (which is going great, by the way!), Emily "phones in" a micro-episode where she answers listener mail. How do we deal with the way our partner relationships change over time? "Very carefully" is the short answer. Her podcasting schedule completely wrecked by Book Tour (which is going great, by the way!), Emily "phones in" a micro-episode where she answers listener mail. How do we deal with the way our partner relationships change over time? "Very carefully" is the short answer. no 7:27 5: Gonna Fly Now Adventures of Penny Hall Moises Chiullan Wed, 01 Apr 2015 00:00:00 +0000 https://feedpress.me/link/9709/5547124/5 52edbc9de4b0b870f5f7ed49:54d291d4e4b0efe7320d3796:551b367ee4b0aef7d2702fe2

"Penny Hall" in New Zealand has spent her life at war with a phantom self that has informed who she thinks she's supposed to be sexually. She talks about her lifelong discovery process of determining whether she is, in fact, Super-Sexy Lady, or if her authentic Sexual Identity is really "just" Penny Hall.

"Penny Hall" will return.

]]> Emily Nagoski "Penny Hall" in New Zealand has spent her life at war with a phantom self that has informed who she thinks she's supposed to be sexually. She talks about her lifelong discovery process of determining whether she is, in fact, Super-Sexy Lady, or if her authentic Sexual Identity is really "just" Penny "Penny Hall" in New Zealand has spent her life at war with a phantom self that has informed who she thinks she's supposed to be sexually. She talks about her lifelong discovery process of determining whether she is, in fact, Super-Sexy Lady, or if her authentic Sexual Identity is really "just" Penny Hall. "Penny Hall" will return. no 01:02:06 4: So You Want to Have an Orgasm The Cindy Lou Chronicles Moises Chiullan Sat, 21 Mar 2015 01:22:24 +0000 https://feedpress.me/link/9709/5547125/4 52edbc9de4b0b870f5f7ed49:54d291d4e4b0efe7320d3796:550cb835e4b0764241f43994

"Cindy Lou" has never had an orgasm. She discusses her experiences and Emily assigns her homework.

CINDY LOU WILL RETURN

Audio quality note: a small amount of unavoidable static hiss can be heard (mostly) toward the beginning of the track. Further reducing it radically clipped the actual spoken audio. It goes away as the show progresses.

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]]> Emily Nagoski "Cindy Lou" has never had an orgasm. She discusses her experiences and Emily assigns her homework. "Cindy Lou" has never had an orgasm. She discusses her experiences and Emily assigns her homework. no 01:04:31 3: Moral Foundation Moises Chiullan Sat, 14 Mar 2015 20:28:43 +0000 https://feedpress.me/link/9709/5547126/3 52edbc9de4b0b870f5f7ed49:54d291d4e4b0efe7320d3796:55036ab5e4b0c3c9c4c0d186

Amelia Nagoski is a choral conductor and Emily's twin sister. They start with lube and go from there, eventually talking about Stephen Fry and how prejudices appear in strange places when it regards what we define as "abnormal".

Emily and Amelia's voices are very similar. The clearer voice in this recording is Emily. The somewhat distorted-by-Skype one is Amelia.

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]]> Emily Nagoski Amelia Nagoski is a choral conductor and Emily's twin sister. They start with lube and go from there, eventually talking about Stephen Fry and how prejudices appear in strange places when it regards what we define as "abnormal". Amelia Nagoski is a choral conductor and Emily's twin sister. They start with lube and go from there, eventually talking about Stephen Fry and how prejudices appear in strange places when it regards what we define as "abnormal". Emily and Amelia's voices are very similar. The clearer voice in this recording is Emily. The somewhat distorted-by-Skype one is Amelia. no 00:33:26 2: Responsive Desire Moises Chiullan Wed, 04 Mar 2015 02:37:29 +0000 https://feedpress.me/link/9709/5547127/2 52edbc9de4b0b870f5f7ed49:54d291d4e4b0efe7320d3796:54f64f37e4b071fa876167a2

Danielle Corsetto has been reading Emily's newly released book, Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life (available soon in the UK). Danielle asks questions about what makes sex hurt, and whether that's normal. They also discuss the male-centric definitions of sex (especially as it pertains to orgasm), as well as how Big Pharma is trying to medicalize women's sexual dysfunction with "Female Viagra".

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]]> Emily Nagoski Danielle Corsetto asks questions about what makes sex hurt (and whether that's "normal"). They also discuss the male-centric definitions of orgasm and more, as well as how Big Pharma is trying to medicalize women's sexual dysfunction with "Female Viagra". Danielle Corsetto has been reading Emily's newly released book, Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life (available soon in the UK). Danielle asks questions about what makes sex hurt, and whether that's normal. They also discuss the male-centric definitions of sex (especially as it pertains to orgasm), as well as how Big Pharma is trying to medicalize women's sexual dysfunction with "Female Viagra". no 00:45:42 1: People Are Saying It's Dangerous! Moises Chiullan Thu, 26 Feb 2015 05:30:00 +0000 https://feedpress.me/link/9709/5547128/1 52edbc9de4b0b870f5f7ed49:54d291d4e4b0efe7320d3796:54eecaa5e4b0947228752cae

Emily discusses 50 Shades of Grey, Secretary, and the portrayal of BDSM in the mainstream with Oh Joy Sex Toy creator Erika Moen.

Emily's book Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life is out in the USA on 3 March 2015, and in the UK on 9 April 2015.

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Guest: Erika Moen

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  • Secretary (from 2002, starring James Spader and Maggie Gyllenhaal) is now promoted with the tagline "The Original Mr. Grey" on Amazon: Blu-ray ($7), HD ($8 to buy, $4 to rent)
  • Oh Joy Sex Toy comic about 50 Shades of Grey
  • Oh Joy Sex Toy post about 50 Shades and Secretary, inspired by this recording
  • Emily wrote a series of blog posts as she trudged through 50 Shades of Grey. It begins here, and runs five installments: one/two/three/four/five. Spoiler: part five is titled "why this book is bullshit, and what I intend to do about it".
  • The tweet
  • Emily will be at Powell's Books in Portland on March 31st. You can pre-order your signed copy of Come As You Are from them (a real, human-run bookstore) in advance if you click on Emily's name in the calendar.
  • Rich "Genius", who jokes during intercourse, co-hosts two shows on ESN (Coffee & Cider and Night Moves)
]]> Emily Nagoski Emily discusses 50 Shades of Grey, Secretary, and the portrayal of BDSM in the mainstream with Oh Joy Sex Toy creator Erika Moen. Emily's book Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life is out in the USA on 3 March 2015, and in the UK on 9 April 2015. Emily discusses 50 Shades of Grey, Secretary, and the portrayal of BDSM in the mainstream with Oh Joy Sex Toy creator Erika Moen. Emily's book Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life is out in the USA on 3 March 2015, and in the UK on 9 April 2015. Already love Come As You Are? Rate and review the show in iTunes, even if you don't use iTunes! no 00:56:36 0: What Makes Good Sex Happen Moises Chiullan Wed, 25 Feb 2015 00:40:02 +0000 https://feedpress.me/link/9709/5547129/0 52edbc9de4b0b870f5f7ed49:54d291d4e4b0efe7320d3796:54ed1525e4b08f2aaf4629c2

Originally posted as an episode of Thank You For Calling!, Come As You Are host Emily Nagoski talks about her work as a sex educator and the misconceptions she's faced with when people stop her in the grocery store to ask about their sex lives.

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]]> Emily Nagoski & Moisés Chiullan Originally posted as an episode of Thank You For Calling!, Come As You Are host Emily Nagoski talks about her work as a sex educator and the misconceptions she's faced with when people stop her in the grocery store to ask about their sex lives. Originally posted as an episode of Thank You For Calling!, Come As You Are host Emily Nagoski talks about her work as a sex educator and the misconceptions she's faced with when people stop her in the grocery store to ask about their sex lives. Subscribe to Come As You Are (via this link to RSS) and rate and review it in iTunes as soon as you see it there. no 00:22:56